How to Talk to Your Bank When Facing Difficulties

Communication guide: what to say, when to call, what to document

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Communicating with your lender before missing a payment is key to protecting your mortgage and credit score in Quebec. Lenders prefer finding solutions rather than initiating foreclosure proceedings, which are costly for all. Prepare your call by documenting your current financial situation including income, expenses, and assets, the cause of the difficulty whether temporary or permanent, and your plan to resolve the situation. Ask for the collections department or borrower assistance service. Explain the situation clearly and honestly. Ask about available options: payment deferral, amortization modification, interest-only payments. Get everything in writing. In Quebec, the Civil Code provides a 60-day prior notice under article 2758 before any taking in payment proceedings. This delay gives you time to find solutions. An AMF-certified broker can communicate with the lender on your behalf and negotiate more favourable terms.

Communication Guide With Your Lender During Financial Difficulty

Proactive communication with your lender is your best tool in case of financial difficulty. Lenders want to avoid foreclosures as much as you do, as these proceedings are long, costly, and hurt their balance sheet. By communicating before missing a payment, you demonstrate good faith and access a much wider range of options than if you wait until you are in default.

Preparing your call: the key to success

A well-prepared call considerably increases your chances of obtaining a favourable solution. The lender's representative evaluates your situation and credibility. The more complete your file and realistic your plan, the more options are available.

  1. Gather your complete financial file: Prepare a detailed budget showing your current income (employment, Employment Insurance, other sources), fixed expenses (mortgage, taxes, insurance, utilities) and variable expenses, assets (savings, investments, home equity), and total debts. This financial portrait allows the lender to evaluate your situation and propose adapted solutions.
  2. Clearly identify the cause of difficulty: Distinguish a temporary difficulty (job loss with return prospects, illness with expected recovery, ongoing separation) from a permanent difficulty (permanent disability, forced early retirement). Lenders have more options for temporary situations.
  3. Call the right department: Specifically ask for the collections department, borrower assistance service, or loan modification service. General customer service often lacks the authority to offer the accommodations you need.
  4. Communicate with honesty and precision: Explain your situation without exaggerating or minimizing. Indicate what you can pay (even a partial amount) and propose a plan to resume normal payments with a realistic timeline.
  5. Get every agreement in writing: Any verbal agreement must be confirmed by letter or email from the lender. Note the representative's full name, file reference number, and the date of each communication.

Options the lender can offer

  • Full payment deferral (1 to 6 months): no payment during the period, interest accrues to principal. Ideal for a temporary difficulty with expected return to normal.
  • Amortization modification: extension to reduce monthly payment by 10 to 15%. Can be permanent or temporary. Reversible at next renewal.
  • Interest-only payments: reduces payment by 40 to 60% for a period of 3 to 12 months. Principal does not decrease during this period.
  • Temporary rate reduction: some lenders agree to temporarily reduce the rate to lower the payment during the difficulty period.
  • Partial payment with catch-up plan: the lender accepts a reduced payment with a schedule to repay arrears once the situation is restored.

An AMF-certified broker communicates with your lender on your behalf, bringing their expertise and professional relationships to obtain the best possible terms. The broker knows each lender's internal policies and knows which options are actually available, even those not publicly announced.

Frequently Asked Questions

When should I contact my bank?
As soon as you anticipate difficulty, BEFORE missing a payment. Earlier = more options.
What should I prepare before the call?
Detailed budget, proof of current income, explanation of the cause, proposed resolution plan.
Can the lender seize immediately?
No. In Quebec, a 60-day prior notice is mandatory (art. 2758 C.C.Q.) before any taking in payment proceedings.
Can a broker negotiate on my behalf?
Yes. An AMF-certified broker has the expertise and contacts to negotiate effectively with the lender.
Should I get agreements in writing?
Absolutely. Any verbal modification or agreement should be confirmed in writing to protect you.

Educational information only. This does not constitute financial advice under the Act Respecting the Distribution of Financial Products and Services (LDPSF). Consult an AMF-certified mortgage broker before making any financial decision.

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